Tuesday, August 19, 2014

We Sorrow with You


I just want to take a moment to offer a word of comfort to the Brown family and to all of those families who have lost a loving family member needlessly and tragically.

There is not much that can be said at this time.  Just know that you are not alone in your sorrow.    To you I offer these words:



I wish I could say the hurt will go away
I wish I could say I understand what you are going through,
I wish I could say this will be the last time you have to feel this way.
There is so much I wish I could say.
Truth is there is nothing I can say to make the hurt go away
It hurts me to know that you sorrow
It hurts me to know you feel pain.
Time alone will give you some semblance of relief
                                 And smooth the agony of your grief.   
It is not to say sometimes you won’t sorrow or weep,
But one day you will be able to look back on your time together without unbearable pain.
Until then, take comfort in knowing that every memory and every smile was not only a gift
 but a timeless treasure that goes beyond measure.


 Having lost a mother and a father this year, I know your pain.
I wrote this poem in October 2012 after my Mother passed away.  It is still like yesterday to me.



              Gone

Sometimes I pray I’m having a dream
And just don’t understand what it means
It already feels like forever since you departed.
I am so broken-hearted.
I keep reaching for the phone to call you
Like I used to do
Then I remember once again
You just can’t imagine how hard it has been.
I’ll never hear your voice or feel your touch.
I miss you so much.
The quiet peacefulness that was yours alone
It’s just gone.
The words of comfort I shared with others before
Don’t mean anything anymore.
Nothing can change the reality
You will still be-
Gone
They says things will get better with time
Those words were even mine
Nothing prepares you for this
It’s different when it’s someone you love that you miss
It’s hard to believe you will never see their smile or feel their kiss
You’ll never be able to share the little things you used to share
Cause they’re not there.
I knew how hard this would be
But it’s harder than I ever thought it would be
They say time alone will heal a heart that is shattered
But right now time doesn’t matter.
Today, tomorrow, next week
There is no comfort I can seek
Words,
Words, are just words
When you’re all alone
And someone you love has just gone.
I know you’re in a better place,
But I still want to see your face.
I know you wouldn’t want to return,
But for you, I still yearn.
I feel no disgrace
For telling you I’m in this place.
When it’ someone you love, you’ll understand.
I pray one day I can
Right now, this is my reality
When I wake up tomorrow, I’ll still feel the same
Nothing will take away the heartache or the pain
That comes with missing you
There is nothing I can do
Nothing can change the reality
You’ll still be-
Gone

Lord open the windows of heaven flood our souls
With words of comfort yet untold
We need your spirit to fall fresh on us
Giving the comfort only you can give
Each day we live