A Penny for Your Thoughts



Respect is not given in degrees.
You either get it or you don't.
Complete respect is what we should not only expect,
It is what we should demand in a relationship.



A man is a man wherever he stands
It doesn't matter who he is or how much money
he can pay, he comes in the world with nothing
and leaves the same way


In their efforts to go so far to where they believe
is right, some people have gone too far wrong.


The wind may go out of your sail,
but that doesn't mean you have to fail.
Wait for the second wind and begin again.


Being an American goes beyond party, race, religion, or any other beliefs we may hold.
The heart of a true American transcends any differences we may have as men.


"The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be."
Ralph Waldo Emerson


"The two most dangerous things on the planet is sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.  Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr."


"The words "Freedom and justice for all" are more than just words.  They are words that can only emanate from the souls of those who truly understand and inherently know that these words mean providing for others as well as yourself; and a deep belief in the equality of every individual, man, woman or child in the universe."   Lionel and Patricia Newman

Whatever we pledge allegiance to will shape and form our life.

He who makes the best design,
Makes all things beautiful in his time ..P. H.

It shouldn't matter who or where a solution comes from.
Gender, age, race, religion, or place has no significance
in the resolution of our problems.
I say our problems, because a problem for one
is a problem for all. You may think that finding the solution to crime
is not your problem, because you don't live in a high crime area.
No where is safe.   One day, "over there" will become over here.
No one is exempt from the problems that we face.
We have to learn to put our differences aside
and discuss the issues earnestly and honestly, giving one another
the respect we are all due.

Thinking out loud:


In the face of tragedy, we never question who we can trust.
Like innocent children, we place our lives in the hands of
our savior, regardless of who he may be.  We never question
his intent or why he was sent, his religion, his color or his station.
We take his hand and grab hold for dear life.  At that point, we
not only come face to face with our own humanity, we come
face to face with our brother.

When our country was attacked,
and so many innocent lives lost,
There was a strong sense of unity
born out of our collective loss.
In tragedy, we all became one,
sharing a bond based on our own vulnerability.
That bond should exist every day of our lives.

Regarding our country:

As a nation, God has truly shed his grace upon us.
If we refuse to acknowledge what he has done,
we forego the many freedoms we take for granted.

The beauty of life is the uniqueness of spirit God
blesses us with.  Once we are able to harness our gifts,
we are able to soar to unimaginable heights.  What
God has for us is beyond anything we can imagine or think
in our finite minds.

In the midst of failure's deafening screams is when we
need most to hold fast our dreams.


I heard Steve Harvey say,
Remove the word try from your vocabulary.
A winning team does not play to try to win, they play to win.

Being different should never become a liability.  Some of the greatest men were different.
We need to become more tolerant of the different and stop labeling people who are different as weird.  Ask the man you perceive as weird, what he thinks of you.  He may think you are weird.  I'm just saying.
PH..2017

The enemy is not fighting you over where you are, he is fighting you over where you are going.
TD Jakes

Some people will never accept the truth in any form.  It is as if their brain is rationed.
When confronted with facts, they respond with lies and twisted realities.  The truth of the
matter is, they would not know the truth if it came up and bit them in the butt.  I'm just saying.

If you cannot find the truth where you are, where else do you expect to find it?  Dogen Zenji

Finding your destiny will always disappoint people who have assigned you to theirs.
T.D. Jakes

No one can ever take from you what you know.
When you educate your mind, you develop the skills
that will allow you to determine your own truths.

P. Harris 2018

Rosa Parks quote